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cupcakevandorn: locsgirl: December 4, 2011: See this beautiful, graceful dancer here?  She’s an actual ballerina from Russia’s ‘Big Ballet’. When I was little, in addition to wanting to enter pageants for fun and try modelling, I always wanted to dance ballet.  I repeatedly begged to be put in ballet classes.  I used to watch ballet performances (and pageants on TV) and mimic what I saw, as ‘practice’.  I just wanted to be those pretty, graceful girls I saw on TV and in movies.  I thought they were so elegant and graceful. Want to know why it never happened?  It was because every adult who found out about my dreams told me the same thing: “You’re too fat/too short/not pretty enough/it’s only for pretty girls/etc”.  Even my parents told me the same thing.  Looking back on it now, I  realize my parents were protecting me from the cruelty of modelling and pageants and ballet, but it was still messed up to be constantly told I was ugly and fat and too short to do what I wanted to do.  The worst part?  My prettier cousins were ALWAYS in pageants and the dance classes they wanted to take and one of them even got to model in a clothing advertisement.  All the things I wanted to do, but told I couldn’t because of my height and weight and looks.  MY compromise was being put in a Hip Hop dance class.  I wanted to dance, so I agreed to it, but I wanted to dance BALLET.  Total BS. Imagine how annoyed and pissed off I was when at age 13 or 14, after I’d given up on trying to model and enter pageants and dance ballet, that I was attending my younger cousin’s dance recital, and there was a fat girl, as part of another group, dancing ballet.  She moved just as gracefully as the tall and skinny girls I was always told were only allowed to dance ballet. Know what’s even more messed up?  To this day, years later, I realize I’m still hurt by that. i got SO MUCH sizist bullshit passive aggressive comments when i posted about this on my facebook “how could the dude ballerinas even LIFT THEM ERMEHGERD HURHURRR” seriously wanted to punch people, instead i unfriended said sizist assholes.

cupcakevandorn:

locsgirl:

December 4, 2011:

See this beautiful, graceful dancer here?  She’s an actual ballerina from Russia’s ‘Big Ballet’.

When I was little, in addition to wanting to enter pageants for fun and try modelling, I always wanted to dance ballet.  I repeatedly begged to be put in ballet classes.  I used to watch ballet performances (and pageants on TV) and mimic what I saw, as ‘practice’.  I just wanted to be those pretty, graceful girls I saw on TV and in movies.  I thought they were so elegant and graceful.

Want to know why it never happened?  It was because every adult who found out about my dreams told me the same thing: “You’re too fat/too short/not pretty enough/it’s only for pretty girls/etc”.  Even my parents told me the same thing.  Looking back on it now, I  realize my parents were protecting me from the cruelty of modelling and pageants and ballet, but it was still messed up to be constantly told I was ugly and fat and too short to do what I wanted to do.  The worst part?  My prettier cousins were ALWAYS in pageants and the dance classes they wanted to take and one of them even got to model in a clothing advertisement.  All the things I wanted to do, but told I couldn’t because of my height and weight and looks.  MY compromise was being put in a Hip Hop dance class.  I wanted to dance, so I agreed to it, but I wanted to dance BALLET.  Total BS.

Imagine how annoyed and pissed off I was when at age 13 or 14, after I’d given up on trying to model and enter pageants and dance ballet, that I was attending my younger cousin’s dance recital, and there was a fat girl, as part of another group, dancing ballet.  She moved just as gracefully as the tall and skinny girls I was always told were only allowed to dance ballet.

Know what’s even more messed up?  To this day, years later, I realize I’m still hurt by that.

i got SO MUCH sizist bullshit passive aggressive comments when i posted about this on my facebook

“how could the dude ballerinas even LIFT THEM ERMEHGERD HURHURRR”

seriously wanted to punch people, instead i unfriended said sizist assholes.

“Talvez agora seja mesmo a hora de seguir em frente, sem você. Não te culpo. É bem verdade que provoquei metade do caos. Mas também não me culpo. Cansei de me culpar. Uma relação entre duas pessoas só funciona mesmo quando as duas querem que dê certo.”

A MARCHA MUNDIAL DAS MULHERES DE SP, CONVIDA TODAS AS MULHERES: Queridas companheiras,Gostaríamos de convidá-las para uma roda de conversa “Invisibilidade Lésbica” com a apresentação do documentário do mesmo nome da nossa companheira da Marcha, Thais Faria (que estará na atividade para introduzir o filme).TODAS as companheiras são muito bem vindas para trocar ideias sobre a invisibilidade das mulheres lésbicas e bissexuais, a manifestação dessa invisibilidade na sociedade (lesbofobia, etc) e o nosso enfrentamento feminista… Quando: dia 13 de abril (sábado)Horário: 10 às 12hOnde: SOF (Rua Ministro Costa e Silva, 36 - uma travessa da Rua Mourato Coelho na Vila Madalena)Sejam bem vindas!Saudações feministas,Marcha Mundial das Mulheres PS. Essa atividade dá continuidade à nossa discussão sobre lesbianidade e feminismo… Se vocês querem saber mais, vocês podem ver como foi a primeira atividade sobre esse tema, e como está a discussão dentro da Marcha até agora, no texto “O que é ser lésbica?” postado no blog da Marcha (http://marchamulheres.wordpress.com/2013/03/13/1414/)Evento no facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/events/563052110405570/

A MARCHA MUNDIAL DAS MULHERES DE SP, CONVIDA TODAS AS MULHERES:

Queridas companheiras,

Gostaríamos de convidá-las para uma roda de conversa “Invisibilidade Lésbica” com a apresentação do documentário do mesmo nome da nossa companheira da Marcha, Thais Faria (que estará na atividade para introduzir o filme).

TODAS as companheiras são muito bem vindas para trocar ideias sobre a invisibilidade das mulheres lésbicas e bissexuais, a manifestação dessa invisibilidade na sociedade (lesbofobia, etc) e o nosso enfrentamento feminista… 

Quando: dia 13 de abril (sábado)
Horário: 10 às 12h
Onde: SOF (Rua Ministro Costa e Silva, 36 - uma travessa da Rua Mourato Coelho na Vila Madalena)

Sejam bem vindas!

Saudações feministas,
Marcha Mundial das Mulheres



PS. Essa atividade dá continuidade à nossa discussão sobre lesbianidade e feminismo… Se vocês querem saber mais, vocês podem ver como foi a primeira atividade sobre esse tema, e como está a discussão dentro da Marcha até agora, no texto “O que é ser lésbica?” postado no blog da Marcha (http://marchamulheres.wordpress.com/2013/03/13/1414/)


Evento no facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/events/563052110405570/